2021 Resolution: Shopping my own bag and SLG collection. Any one else?

[Sparkletastic]

NOVEMBER ACTIVITIES

1. Bags by Brand Showcase!

Each week, share photos of your bags from the specified brands. Choose a posed “beauty” shot or get your bags out and about in action shots!

We highlight 3 brands per week: 2 premier and 1 contemporary in alphabetical order as listed on tPF. Any brands not listed are showcased in our last week. Brands change to the next set each Sunday.

Our first brand week starts now - Sunday, Oct 31. Please share photos of bags from these brands:

• Bottega Venetta
• Burberry
• Alexander Wang

Tip: Grab your photos from last year in the 2020 resolution thread. Search your user name and the brand to find your photos.

2. Special Stories
Thanks @Claudia Herzog for the suggestion

Wear a bag that has a backstory involving a person, place, or opportunity for which you feel grateful.

 

[Jereni]

I’m excited - I think DH actually bought me something handbag related for Christmas! He never does this because I tend to be fairly particular about my bags but he said he saw something at Burberry and loved it. I don’t own anything from that brand, so that’s kind of cool on its own.

 

[whateve]

I’m excited - I think DH actually bought me something handbag related for Christmas! He never does this because I tend to be fairly particular about my bags but he said he saw something at Burberry and loved it. I don’t own anything from that brand, so that’s kind of cool on its own.

That's wonderful! My DH has never stepped foot in Burberry. He would never be in any designer store unless I dragged him in.

 

[Sparkletastic]

I’m excited - I think DH actually bought me something handbag related for Christmas! He never does this because I tend to be fairly particular about my bags but he said he saw something at Burberry and loved it. I don’t own anything from that brand, so that’s kind of cool on its own.

I’m excited for you!! Can’t wait to see.

Mr. Sparkle has exquisite taste in buying for me BUT we’re both particular like you. We solved the problem by pinning items we want to Pinterest. That way any time we want to gift we can pick something we think the other may love and/or pick a certain winner from their Pinterest wish list. He was a little iffy (ok, pretty resistant LOL!) to this approach til he saw how easy it made gift giving / receiving.

That's wonderful! My DH has never stepped foot in Burberry. He would never be in any designer store unless I dragged him in.

I think its so funny how opposites attract. I had to be dragged into buying anything designer (beyond a few handbags) by Mr. S. I think it’s the US Midwest “don’t put on airs / save your money” in me.

 

[Sparkletastic]

I need your advice. Please excuse the long post.

Of my 25 bags, 9 are black. That isn’t a problem per se but, I’m cautious about adding more.

I tend to wear wg jewelry but want to wear my yg more. I don’t mix metals so I want one all gold bag & two neutral (black and ?) ghw bags.

So here are my questions.

• Is adding a black/ghw bag to my collection overkill though I know I’d use this new bag a lot?

• Three of my black bags were bought for work (Dior tote, Max Mara and YSL satchel) Covid changed life so I’m permanent WFH. They get zero use. Is anyone else selling work only bags? Too soon?

• I bought a gold C Boy to be my multipurpose gold bag. But, I have a slim build & it feels sooooo big in new medium. Should I sell even though I don’t see any good substitutes? My only other ghw bag is my off white & gold Diorama which I adore but is my least worn bag bc the off white doesn’t go well with the black / grey / cool / jewel tones that dominate my closet. However, I will never sell the Diorama.

For reference. My black bags:
My bags w/ghw:

HELP!

 

[dcooney4]

I need your advice. Please excuse the long post.

Of my 25 bags, 9 are black. That isn’t a problem per se but, I’m cautious about adding more.

I tend to wear wg jewelry but want to wear my yg more. I don’t mix metals so I want one all gold bag & two neutral (black and ?) ghw bags.

So here are my questions.

• Is adding a black/ghw bag to my collection overkill though I know I’d use this new bag a lot?

• Three of my black bags were bought for work (Dior tote, Max Mara and YSL satchel) Covid changed life so I’m permanent WFH. They get zero use. Is anyone else selling work only bags? Too soon?

• I bought a gold C Boy to be my multipurpose gold bag. But, I have a slim build & it feels sooooo big in new medium. Should I sell even though I don’t see any good substitutes? My only other ghw bag is my off white & gold Diorama which I adore but is my least worn bag bc the off white doesn’t go well with the black / grey / cool / jewel tones that dominate my closet. However, I will never sell the Diorama.

For reference. My black bags: View attachment 5277424View attachment 5277428View attachment 5277446View attachment 5277426
My bags w/ghw:
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HELP!

I would say sell your least favorite work bag. Some people just like big bags. Then get whatever your heart desires.

 

[JenJBS]

I’m excited - I think DH actually bought me something handbag related for Christmas! He never does this because I tend to be fairly particular about my bags but he said he saw something at Burberry and loved it. I don’t own anything from that brand, so that’s kind of cool on its own.

How exciting! Please show us after Christmas!

 

[msd_bags]

I need your advice. Please excuse the long post.

Of my 25 bags, 9 are black. That isn’t a problem per se but, I’m cautious about adding more.

I tend to wear wg jewelry but want to wear my yg more. I don’t mix metals so I want one all gold bag & two neutral (black and ?) ghw bags.

So here are my questions.

• Is adding a black/ghw bag to my collection overkill though I know I’d use this new bag a lot?

• Three of my black bags were bought for work (Dior tote, Max Mara and YSL satchel) Covid changed life so I’m permanent WFH. They get zero use. Is anyone else selling work only bags? Too soon?

• I bought a gold C Boy to be my multipurpose gold bag. But, I have a slim build & it feels sooooo big in new medium. Should I sell even though I don’t see any good substitutes? My only other ghw bag is my off white & gold Diorama which I adore but is my least worn bag bc the off white doesn’t go well with the black / grey / cool / jewel tones that dominate my closet. However, I will never sell the Diorama.

For reference. My black bags: View attachment 5277424View attachment 5277428View attachment 5277446View attachment 5277426
My bags w/ghw:
View attachment 5277445View attachment 5277444
HELP!

I think it’s okay to get a black bag with yg hardware. I also feel uncomfortable mixing metals (except if my jewelry is two-toned). Maybe get a shape/type/style that is more distinct from your other bags?

And as DC said, maybe it’s time to sell at least one of your work bags?

 

[whateve]

I need your advice. Please excuse the long post.

Of my 25 bags, 9 are black. That isn’t a problem per se but, I’m cautious about adding more.

I tend to wear wg jewelry but want to wear my yg more. I don’t mix metals so I want one all gold bag & two neutral (black and ?) ghw bags.

So here are my questions.

• Is adding a black/ghw bag to my collection overkill though I know I’d use this new bag a lot?

• Three of my black bags were bought for work (Dior tote, Max Mara and YSL satchel) Covid changed life so I’m permanent WFH. They get zero use. Is anyone else selling work only bags? Too soon?

• I bought a gold C Boy to be my multipurpose gold bag. But, I have a slim build & it feels sooooo big in new medium. Should I sell even though I don’t see any good substitutes? My only other ghw bag is my off white & gold Diorama which I adore but is my least worn bag bc the off white doesn’t go well with the black / grey / cool / jewel tones that dominate my closet. However, I will never sell the Diorama.

For reference. My black bags: View attachment 5277424View attachment 5277428View attachment 5277446View attachment 5277426
My bags w/ghw:
View attachment 5277445View attachment 5277444
HELP!

don't sell the boy until you find a better substitute. It isn't overkill to add a black bag with GHW. Do you envision it ever changing back to working in an office? If so, I would keep the work bags.

 

[Jereni]

I would say sell your least favorite work bag. Some people just like big bags. Then get whatever your heart desires.

I think it’s okay to get a black bag with yg hardware. I also feel uncomfortable mixing metals (except if my jewelry is two-toned). Maybe get a shape/type/style that is more distinct from your other bags?

And as DC said, maybe it’s time to sell at least one of your work bags?

+1 to these. I don’t think it’s too early to sell work bags if for the foreseeable future you will be working from home.

If it were me, I’d sell the Dior or the Max Mara but that’s just because I adore that YSL satchel and I think it works as a regular non-work handbag.

 

[880]

I need your advice. Please excuse the long post.

Of my 25 bags, 9 are black. That isn’t a problem per se but, I’m cautious about adding more.

I tend to wear wg jewelry but want to wear my yg more. I don’t mix metals so I want one all gold bag & two neutral (black and ?) ghw bags.

So here are my questions.

• Is adding a black/ghw bag to my collection overkill though I know I’d use this new bag a lot?

• Three of my black bags were bought for work (Dior tote, Max Mara and YSL satchel) Covid changed life so I’m permanent WFH. They get zero use. Is anyone else selling work only bags? Too soon?

• I bought a gold C Boy to be my multipurpose gold bag. But, I have a slim build & it feels sooooo big in new medium. Should I sell even though I don’t see any good substitutes? My only other ghw bag is my off white & gold Diorama which I adore but is my least worn bag bc the off white doesn’t go well with the black / grey / cool / jewel tones that dominate my closet. However, I will never sell the Diorama.

For reference. My black bags: View attachment 5277424View attachment 5277428View attachment 5277446View attachment 5277426
My bags w/ghw:
View attachment 5277445View attachment 5277444
HELP!

Adding a black bag GHW is not overkill. However, it seems like your wardrobe as described (black, grey, cool jewel tones) really work well with balck leather, black hW that you already own. . . i have similar wardrobe colors and find GHW on bags to be difficult (and I have transitioned into YG and PG jewelry). I have one black bag with GHW, and I almost never wear it despite now wearing YG and RG jewelry every day. (Part of this GHW negativity may be my age; I’m 54, and GHW is very 1980s to me).

I personally use black HW bags with either YG, RG or WG jewelry, but I’ve on,y started mixing metal in 2020.

its not too early to sell some work bags if you will never use them. I personally would rehome the max mara and the YSL satchel (bc you still have the YSL camera chevron. I would keep the Dior bc I have a feeling when big bags return, it will be versatile

IMO sell the medium boy. I’m medium framed with a bulky shoulder and upper arm (AKA chunky compared to slim build people) and my SA and DH think even a small boy is too bulky. I think even when the pendulum shifts back to larger bags. The medium boy will still feel too boxy and big. IMO part of the reason why is bc the clasp is smaller in relation to the bag and the flap covers the entire front. IMO the boy bag (and I love the boy) is like the French bulldog of bags. It’s not that big, but it comes across as big.

I do love your taste

 

[Joule]

For the record, Céline sounds great in an orchestra pit. Supporting cast: coffee mug and water bottle.

 

[Sparkletastic]

I would say sell your least favorite work bag. Some people just like big bags. Then get whatever your heart desires.

That makes perfect sense. But, the Dior has been up for sale for 8 mo. And, the Max Mara has lost most of it’s value. Sooo… sigh. I dunno.

I think it’s okay to get a black bag with yg hardware. I also feel uncomfortable mixing metals (except if my jewelry is two-toned). Maybe get a shape/type/style that is more distinct from your other bags?

And as DC said, maybe it’s time to sell at least one of your work bags?

Good point on adding variety through shape. I’m thinking of a black / ygh Lady Dior. I’m drawn to medium Chanels but the pricing is stupid and I have 6 Chanel flaps I am barely using due to covid.

don't sell the boy until you find a better substitute. It isn't overkill to add a black bag with GHW. Do you envision it ever changing back to working in an office? If so, I would keep the work bags.

Finding gold bags is so hard bc they can quickly go dated and gaudy.
My gut says we’ll return to some level of face to face in business again but that could be my Gen X age showing

+1 to these. I don’t think it’s too early to sell work bags if for the foreseeable future you will be working from home.

If it were me, I’d sell the Dior or the Max Mara but that’s just because I adore that YSL satchel and I think it works as a regular non-work handbag.

Thanks for the compliment on the YSL. I agree and would keep that while trying to sell the other two.

Adding a black bag GHW is not overkill. However, it seems like your wardrobe as described (black, grey, cool jewel tones) really work well with balck leather, black hW that you already own. . . i have similar wardrobe colors and find GHW on bags to be difficult (and I have transitioned into YG and PG jewelry). I have one black bag with GHW, and I almost never wear it despite now wearing YG and RG jewelry every day. (Part of this GHW negativity may be my age; I’m 54, and GHW is very 1980s to me).

I personally use black HW bags with either YG, RG or WG jewelry, but I’ve on,y started mixing metal in 2020.

its not too early to sell some work bags if you will never use them. I personally would rehome the max mara and the YSL satchel (bc you still have the YSL camera chevron. I would keep the Dior bc I have a feeling when big bags return, it will be versatile

IMO sell the medium boy. I’m medium framed with a bulky shoulder and upper arm (AKA chunky compared to slim build people) and my SA and DH think even a small boy is too bulky. I think even when the pendulum shifts back to larger bags. The medium boy will still feel too boxy and big. IMO part of the reason why is bc the clasp is smaller in relation to the bag and the flap covers the entire front. IMO the boy bag (and I love the boy) is like the French bulldog of bags. It’s not that big, but it comes across as big.

I do love your taste

I’m glowing from your compliment as I respect and enjoy your opinions / items as well.

On the shelf, I adore the gold Boy but, it’s not the best in effortless wear. I feel it needs to go but, what is an “everyday” gold bag replacement.

 

[dcooney4]

That makes perfect sense. But, the Dior has been up for sale for 8 mo. And, the Max Mara has lost most of it’s value. Sooo… sigh. I dunno.
Good point on adding variety through shape. I’m thinking of a black / ygh Lady Dior. I’m drawn to medium Chanels but the pricing is stupid and I have 6 Chanel flaps I am barely using due to covid.
Finding gold bags is so hard bc they can quickly go dated and gaudy.
My gut says we’ll return to some level of face to face in business again but that could be my Gen X age showing Thanks for the compliment on the YSL. I agree and would keep that while trying to sell the other two.
I’m glowing from your compliment as I respect and enjoy your opinions / items as well.

On the shelf, I adore the gold Boy but, it’s not the best in effortless wear. I feel it needs to go but, what is an “everyday” gold bag replacement.

Try putting the Max Mara up for sale. If it doesn't go at least you tried. Right now people have holiday money and some of the oddest things are selling while other stuff just sits.

 

[BowieFan1971]

That makes perfect sense. But, the Dior has been up for sale for 8 mo. And, the Max Mara has lost most of it’s value. Sooo… sigh. I dunno.
Good point on adding variety through shape. I’m thinking of a black / ygh Lady Dior. I’m drawn to medium Chanels but the pricing is stupid and I have 6 Chanel flaps I am barely using due to covid.
Finding gold bags is so hard bc they can quickly go dated and gaudy.
My gut says we’ll return to some level of face to face in business again but that could be my Gen X age showing Thanks for the compliment on the YSL. I agree and would keep that while trying to sell the other two.
I’m glowing from your compliment as I respect and enjoy your opinions / items as well.

On the shelf, I adore the gold Boy but, it’s not the best in effortless wear. I feel it needs to go but, what is an “everyday” gold bag replacement.

I am +1 with 880. I think maybe try a ghw bag from a contemporary designer first. Aspinal, Coach and Tory Burch have some nice ones, so does Ferragamo. Or you could get a sleek no hardware bag to wear with gold…The Row has some stunning ones with some gorgeous leather.

 

[papertiger]

I need your advice. Please excuse the long post.

Of my 25 bags, 9 are black. That isn’t a problem per se but, I’m cautious about adding more.

I tend to wear wg jewelry but want to wear my yg more. I don’t mix metals so I want one all gold bag & two neutral (black and ?) ghw bags.

So here are my questions.

• Is adding a black/ghw bag to my collection overkill though I know I’d use this new bag a lot?

• Three of my black bags were bought for work (Dior tote, Max Mara and YSL satchel) Covid changed life so I’m permanent WFH. They get zero use. Is anyone else selling work only bags? Too soon?

• I bought a gold C Boy to be my multipurpose gold bag. But, I have a slim build & it feels sooooo big in new medium. Should I sell even though I don’t see any good substitutes? My only other ghw bag is my off white & gold Diorama which I adore but is my least worn bag bc the off white doesn’t go well with the black / grey / cool / jewel tones that dominate my closet. However, I will never sell the Diorama.

For reference. My black bags: View attachment 5277424View attachment 5277428View attachment 5277446View attachment 5277426
My bags w/ghw:
View attachment 5277445View attachment 5277444
HELP!

You've a lovely collection of black bags, the SLPs and Dior 'so blacks' are really making my eyes go out on storks. A black bag with ghw is different (I carry my Evie every day) it's quite a 'jewellery' look IMO.

As for work bags:
Some of my bags double-up for shopping or travel so no problem with those. It's just my old Paul Smith blush-pink satchel that I used exclusively for work in Summer, a silver Cambridge satchel plus a few briefcases (black Liberty, brown foldaway-travel Aquascutum) that say WORK. I still have to travel into work sometimes and occasionally meetings elsewhere so maybe it's a different story for me anyway, but these are all great bags, the only ones I'd trust a laptop to, and if I had to buy again would now cost me considerably more.