Hello Ladies,
I am in desperate need of your help/ opinion. I will try my best to keep the post short but forgive me if it becomes longer than intended.
I am getting married this November (12th to be exact) and while I have always thought VCA pieces were beautiful. My dear fiancé saw me looking at the VCA website and I quote “oh, do you want something from them? Is it like a Tiffany’s? Maybe you can pick something out for the wedding” I ALMOST DIED. Oh I know he didn’t see the price tags hahaha BUT! I am taking the chance ladies before he backs out! lol
I do not want to take advantage of my sweet fiancés generous offer. We are both just average Joes and while I know if I told him I want a 10 motif white gold mother of pearl necklace, he would probably find a way to get it for me, I don’t want to do that to him

. I really should be thankful he is offering to buy me a VCA piece for my wedding

.
So here is my dilemma…
I do not own any YG jewelry pieces and all my jewelry is either WG or platinum. I am Asian American and have more yellow/ golden undertone in my skin so I feel like Gold will make me look more yellow? I have always loved the Alhambra collection ( oh how I wish there was a WG Guilloche pendant right about now) but Frivole collection is darling too and I think it would go well with my new dress (yes… I had to buy a new dress because the one I ordered is way too big on me now…

BUT I do love the new one as well!).
While this necklace will be a sentimental piece, I do really want to wear the necklace on a daily basis and just about all my clothes in the closet ranges in shades of black, grey, or dark navy (why do I keep on looking at the onyx And the vintage guillochoe yellow gold pendant?!?! Lol)
I am not a dainty gal by any means 5ft 7 and about 175… so I while I don’t want my necklace to take away from my wedding dress being too big/ flashy, I also don’t want it to look too small? If that makes any sense.
I am sure the Vintage Alhambra pendant with white mother of pearl would be the most ideal but I don’t know I can wear this on the daily and be careful not to get water or anything on the stone...
Oh- one more curve ball… my dearest mother decided to buy me a silver tiara to wear for the ceremony/day...

I just couldn’t say no even though I am not the tiara type (only child here… her only chance she gets to be involved in any wedding lol) so I don’t know if YG would go with the overall esthetic? But I really do like the Alhambra collection and would love the pendant as a starter piece…
Should I go with the Frivole collection and get the mini pendent (WG) since it will match and maybe talk myself into getting the matching earrings? lol or go with the Alhambra even if it is YG?
Ladies, I am all over the place right now and I would really appreciate your help.
Please help this lost soul…
I live in So.Cal near South Coast Plaza and Fashion Island but I fear walking into the boutique/ booking an appointment to look around, they will make me feel a sort of a way since I don’t know any SA or anyone around me that has/ owns any VCA pieces. *sigh* I’ve had a couple of instances where I walk into a boutique to buy something and they just flat out ignore me because they just assume? I don’t have the money to buy something I guess? When they realize I am actually buying something they do a 180 and leaves a sour taste in my mouth.
Sorry for being too lengthy- hopefully I didn’t confuse/ lose you all.
I am attaching a picture(s) of my dress and tiara so you can see what they all look like.
The tiara, I tried my best making it look like a headband than an actual tiara.
The full body shot of the model wearing the dress is not me (while I would love to be her size lol). I wanted to show you the back of the dress so you all get the full picture (silver/ crystal/beading).
Thank you so much in advance.
Any and ALL feedback would be greatly appreciated!
Thank you Ladies!