Just to clarify - this bag isn't a high end item. It's only a couple hundred dollars. Your answers make sense, but most of them don't apply in this case. I never thought of shill bidding though. I'm wondering if I paid more than I should have now. I really DO need clarification as to whether or not sellers are obligated to disclose if a listing is private. Herein lies the crux of the matter. I'm wondering if I can cancel my auction. Just refuse the package and RETURN TO SENDER. I don't like the idea of being taken advantage of and if there's a chance that shill bidding took place, than I'm going to be a little more than annoyed.
I am somewhat confused. You are just angry that the auction was private? I mean, you knew the dollar amount you were bidding and you could have stopped bidding at any dollar amount right? You don't have it yet to verify it's authenticity, so what is it you are angry about. I am not taking any side, just playing devil's advocate. A seller has a right and pays to list in any format they choose just as a buyer has a right to not bid. If you did pay more than what it is worth, then that was your choice on the dollar amount to bid. Doesn't the listing say "bidder 1" or "bidder 2" even if private so you can see the amounts that each bidder was bidding. Right now it seems you have nothing but speculation just based on the fact it was private. I have purchased quite a bit from sellers that do private auctions, some of them not even high dollar ones simply due to the fact that the seller has had their account hacked before and cancellations done or spamming occur. Right now it just seems that you are upset that the auction was private and no, a seller does not have to disclose an auction is private as I do believe that is shown on the bidding page.