I'm about the same age as you are too, and me and my bf have talked about engagement as well. He has been talking about a bigger diamond for me than he wanted like around (2-2.5 ct center stone). I was kind of happy that he told me he wanted to get one about that big for me but i was only so happy until he told me that he knows a girl who has a 2 ct. ring and wants me to have just as much as she does ( he didn't say it that way but i knew he implied it). hmm........ i don't want any competition here. LOL
i think the big fuss is over materializing that a bigger ring means the best. it doesn't matter anyone but yourself and how it makes you feel.
Some people would rather have the ring than over the house and these are issues to be dealt with personally. nobody can make that decision for you. if you ask me why someone would buy a ring over a house, i could probably give you many reasons why and then i could give you many reasons why to not. but it just all depends on the person.
i love the story about how you started to realize about your worth and material things. very good. and i think its up to you two to talk about what size and what will make you happy (truely). maybe you can work a compromise out. good luck!
i think the big fuss is over materializing that a bigger ring means the best. it doesn't matter anyone but yourself and how it makes you feel.
Some people would rather have the ring than over the house and these are issues to be dealt with personally. nobody can make that decision for you. if you ask me why someone would buy a ring over a house, i could probably give you many reasons why and then i could give you many reasons why to not. but it just all depends on the person.
i love the story about how you started to realize about your worth and material things. very good. and i think its up to you two to talk about what size and what will make you happy (truely). maybe you can work a compromise out. good luck!