I went to Neiman Marcus yesterday and bought myself a Balencia First bag in black. I love the purse, but it got me wondering, for a thousand bucks or less, what bag would you ladies recommend as the best day-to-night go-with-everything kind of bag? Did I pick the right one or should I have looked elsewhere? I should say here I like small-ish bags (hence the small First), prefer shoulder straps, and love squooshy leather. Please help. I would hate to wear the First and then find something else that I think that I should have bought instead! Thanks!!!!