this bag looks fabulous on you................i love it! its modern and edgy and looks like it would stand up to wear and tear. Re: mothers and their opinions, believe me, getting over that obstacle is a total process,,,,it took me years and now I dont take seriously what she says, if i love the bag (or shoes or top, etc.) But our mothers have this powerful hold on us...i think that's universal between mothers and daughters and the older one gets, the more the hold loosens, but its always there. The bag is stunning. It looks amazing on you.