I have my packages picked up from my home. I used to have problems with the carrier not scanning the packages when picked up, then the post office also wouldn't scan them. Usually they got scanned when they got to the distribution center but not always. Once in awhile, something wouldn't be scanned until delivery. In the last year or so, USPS has been very good with scanning everything.I saw that she edited a listing a day ago so I messaged her today asking if she in fact shipped the item and that I noticed she was active since I messaged her on Saturday but didn’t respond. I told her I’d request to cancel if I didn’t hear back from her by the end of today. She replied within minutes stating that she’s in the hospital and that her daughter shares the account and won’t reply to messages unless it’s for her listings. She also said that all of the packages she shipped the day she shipped my item haven’t been entered into the system (really....) so she’s going to look into it with USPS.
I want to give her the benefit of the doubt if she’s actually in the hospital, but I noticed another buyer gave her a 1 star rating and I messaged that buyer, who told me the seller was in the hospital twice during their transaction (she waited, cancelled the purchase after 7 days, then seller approached her again about repurchasing). Am I an AH for thinking the seller is lying about being in the hospital because she didn’t ship? I’ve also never heard of ALL tracking numbers on packages shipped on the same date not registering. Sometimes packages move at different rates but USPS hasn’t even confirmed receipt in the system yet. Something doesn’t add up. Tomorrow will be one week since she allegedly shipped, and we’re both in CA so things usually arrive in 1-3 days.
I hate when people try to play on your sympathy. Who knows if it is true? If she is sick, maybe she should take a break from selling until she is better. Why kind of daughter won't help her mother out on her listings if she is in the hospital?