Firstly, let me say, I am sorry. That's not being a luxury professional in 1. assuming (she's) authority in the relationship
2. when all you did was follow her advice after
she decided to not go in
3. called your story into question
4. made a fuss like a drama queen
.
I'd think about the endgame. Where do you want this to end (she could lose her job)? Where do you want this to lead to for you and your relationship to the store? If you
can forget about it, forget about it. The fact you've written on the forum makes me think she's left you feeling very upset.
I think
you have a right to feel upset
If you don't shop there often, just leave and write to head office. If you're not a reg. customer they won't care but you may feel better.
If you've had a long and strong relationship with the store. I'd talk to the SM, say
how upset this drama made you feel, then, leave him/her with the facts and ask his/her advice. It's up to him/her to take/not take action. I'd prob suggest staff-training for all staff (but that's me).