I see there's a Ali and a Slim Ali. Obviously the slim Ali is a little narrower. Is it lighter? I'm realy in love with the Ali in whiskey but I hear it's really heavy and that's a turn off, but I like all the space it has. I generally like more open bags like totes, the carly, even the ergo. I'm trying to find something in leather so it'll last longer (without being high maintanence like the scarf ergo I had) and something classic. Any input? Are there any action shots posted anywhere?