My friend has one and she uses it everyday because she has two boys - a three year old and a 2 month old. She uses it as a diaper bag and to keep their toys, bottles, diapers, and etc. She loves it coz it's perfect for her, but I don't think it would be an appropriate bag to wear to work. So yea, I agree with you that it's more casual, great for moms, as a weekend bag, or people who dress more casual. If you're looking for an everyday bag, something that you can wear to work, then I'd return it if I were you. It's not a cheap bag, unless you're into collecting limited items, don't keep it just because it's seasonal and hard to get. HTH