My boyfriend and I have been living together for six years. We have had our ups and downs just like most couples do. I found out last week that he had cheated on me in the past four months. I was devestated to say the least. He had ended it with her and had hoped I would never find out but she contacted me. I have decided now to try to move past this with him. I can forgive him. It is the forgetting that I can not seem to do. I think about it all the time. I am such a mess. One minute I am fine and then the next I am a sobbing basket-case. I know that if we are going to make it past this, I have to let it go. I just don't know how. I would appreciate any advice you girls have!