Ack, I typed my whole coming out post and lost it!
Here it is again.
I'm formally Roberta, but please don't ever call me that! My nicknames (the nice ones, LOL!) growing up were Roe, Roey, or Burda. In the Jewish religion, it is customary for parents to name their children after someone who passed away (either using the first letter of the name or the full name), and I was named after Aunt Regina. I was supposed to be Robyn, but my Dad's sister told my parents it sounded too much like a bird, so they changed it to Roberta. However, the joke was on them because no one ever pronounces my name with a "t", they say RoBERDa, so there is a BIRD right in the middle of my name! This formal name did not become my childhood either; I was chubby, had a lazy eye (which took three surgeries to correct) and frizzy hair. In those days, the closest we got to frizz control was a can of Aquanet!
Fast forward to present tense...
I'm 46, divorced (no SO but would love one; we could start a whole new thread on the dating scene at my age - NOT fun!) and live with my 17 year old cat named Furbie who is still going strong. At age 40, I changed careers to Health and Fitness after a layoff in high-tech corporate. I was an Executive Assistant for 15 years. I was always active, but never really serious or consistent about fitness until my mid-thirties. I currently work as a Program Manager of a corporate fitness center in New England and hold certifications in aerobic dance, step aerobics, strength training and personal training. I have also studied kinesiology in depth - a subject that fascinates me.
I took a huge pay cut to change careers and as a result, have learned to be financially creative. My biggest splurges are designer bags (of course!) and designer jeans; tops and shoes I buy low to mid-end. I have also found that age has made me less entitled and bratty LOL!
I love this forum and have enjoyed reading about everyone. Keep the replies coming!!
Here's a pic to put a face to a name.