aww i feel your pain, i went through the same thing and the girls here have been such a great support. i still get panic attacks every now and again even when the matter has been resolved!
oh i know i was following your story thinking how awful it was and then i go and have the same thing happen to me but im feeling ok about it now , glad yours ended well too. if its real im happy but if not then i will have to deal with it (and cry in my room forever!!:cry: ) im really grateful for the advice and everything though its nice to know there is people to help!