So I've been wanting the Zac Posen Alexia bag for a while now. I finally found one in the color I wanted, black. I had never seen it IRL but had seen plenty of pictures. It came this morning and while I love, love, love the style, the bag is very heavy (and maybe a tad bit bigger than I expected...not a real big problem though) AND the clasp digs into my back. I'm a tall and small-boned person, but I don't think it has anything to do with size...rather the design isn't a well-thought out one. I don't know, that's seems harsh to say. But I'm so disappointed! I want to keep it but it hurts to even where it around the house. Ugh! And it was $1400!!! Whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy?!#(&$&(*#@&$(#&($*#($&u#@$& Does anyone have one of these? Is it just me or my bag? I got the last one on NM's site, so exchaning it for a new one is not even an option. Thanks for the advice!