very helpful thx! it's def tough! I live in Maryland where we have very humid summers.. I do plan on getting the vca sweet clover to stack it with & also a pink sapphire bangle that I already have. No more pregnancies (53). good point about other arm; didn't try that..do people wear it on left arm with watch or will that scratch it more? I'm also a tennis player which worries me about the scratching.I am a size 15cm below wrist bone and I wear 16 juc 17 loves, from your pictures it looks similar to yours. I can also do turn the loves around my wrist if I want to. I can easily fit size 16 but it doesn't pass fall freely over my wrist bone hence I sized up to 17 and also the fact that I stack 2 loves. For you, factor in the weather where you live I.e is it always hot summer feels? Future stacking plans? During or after pregnancy etc. I can comfortably fit 16 love bracelet especially during Winter cold days but not if I'm stacking. Also try to put in your other arms n see if it fits better? Hope this picture helps.