Ok I'm under 40 .. can I join ? (I'm 35/single/no kids)....
My family -- they would die if I told them how much I spent on a bag!! (even though they have blown some big cash on some things that I think are "frivolous").
I think it's really difficult for people to understand when someone else purchases something that they themselves think is frivolous/wasteful.
Everyone has their "thing" that they spend money on. To some it's fancy cars, to some it's vacations, others it's throwing money away gambling, and still others spend a fortune on a fancy wedding.
To each their own, I say.
So anyway, to bring my point around -- my family definitely spends money on things that I think are frivolous -- but I would never say anything -- yet they find it perfectly fine to "hint" to me that my spending is frivolous. It irks me!
As for friends, I have two that I could confide in my purcases and they understand. Others either woudn't get it or would just
gossip about it to others.. i.e. "Did you know that Katie spent $400 on a bag the other day and she then bought another one for $200 the next day?? " or "we went to Woodbury Commons and she bought
three bags - can you believe it?!?!?"..
Those people drive me nuts. Like tell me if you think I'm rediculous -- don't shop with me and encourage me to buy the bags and then go behind my back to my friends talking about how much I spent!!! Ok rant over
Anyway I've rambled on quite a bit here about what "people think"... let me move on to my recent acquisitions!!
I just received a metallic anthracite paddy. I love it! I also just bought an anthracite paddy wallet which should be arriving this week. Can't wait! I also just ordered a Linea Pelle bag which should be here soon.
These are my first 2 Chloe pieces. Other bags I carry are Hayden Harnett, Francisco Biasia, and
Coach. I have my eye on a Botkier and a Gustto as well. I don't really go for one brand -- I am basically into leather leather leather. I don't carry any signature bags..
OK that's it for my ramblings
PS my bf completely understand my splurges "to me from me".. At least someone does..lol