2nd or more weddings.

#16
i think that a bride and groom should have whatever wedding they want - on husband #3? still want a 3-ring-circus of a wedding? have it. the wedding should make the couple happy, and i don't think the couple should have to worry whether or not the big celebration they want is 'inappropriate.'
 
#17
To each her own but I would not do it.

After getting up the first time in a big fluffy gown and declaring your undying love 'til death do us part... then realizing it was a mistake... then doing it over again? Not really my style.
 
#18
Zophie said:
I just think it's a personal decision. I wouldn't spend the money on a big wedding (or probably any wedding) even the first time around, but if you want to do it the first, second, third, whatever, it's your day.
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Completely agree on all counts. Personally, I'm an elopement or civil ceremony, no party type of gal. If I ever have kids, if I chose to help for the first wedding, there would be no cash going to any second, third, ect., weddings.
 
#19
I think it's a personal choice & no one else should judge. If you disagree strongly don't attend.

My husb was previously married but I never was. I wanted the wedding & wedding party - the works. It wasn't huge - 100 ppl. Why should I get shortchanged?? We paid for everything ourselves so no one was 'put out' because of it. I wore an ivory dress because I don't like stark white but if a person loves white & looks great in it they should wear what they want.

Thankfully we are surrounded by great friends & family who were nothing but happy for us & several people told me it was the best most fun wedding they ever attended. I have no regrets. Do what fits you.
 
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