Ok, I'm back to vent more...
I have also been hit by scams when purchasing on Ebay. I bought a bag that turned out to be a listing (stolen pics and all) from a hijacked account, and I didn't know that till too late AND Ebay pulled the trans. as fraudulent. I paid by paypal to the newly created account once the hacker got into the person's ebay acct and changed the info. Ok, Ebay knew it was fraudulent and contacted me! It still took the USELESS paypal people almost 3 months to return the money to me..even though their partner Ebay pulled the auction within hours of my paying (I always pay immediately). What made it complicated is that the scammer shipped a fake bag (not the same one in the listing), and my DH didn't know any better and signed for it. At MY expense, I had to ship it off to
Coach NY for proof that it was a fake, despite my sending pics of the entire packaging and bag. They were the most useless and incompetent set of idiots that I have dealt with..they even cancelled my claim at first because I had "received" the item, and I had to refile after hours on the phone with them. I probably would have gotten a refund quicker through a credit card chargeback rather than paypal, but I had figured that it would be quicker this way since Ebay already flagged it as a fraud.
So I have been on both sides of the coin, buying and selling, but since I have been selling, I feel that it's very one-sided against the sellers (or for the most part more is done to protect the buyer). There was a period of time before I started requiring immediate pay that hackers took my auction down so many times, I couldn't keep up with it. ANd...Ebay was not refunding my final value fees like they were supposed to in those cases, and I looked like an idiot to potential buyers who wondered WHY I kept relisting items. I even got sympathy mail from buyers who said, you "poor thing, I'll buy from you"..if you sell to me at a ridiculously low price. SO....after Ebay was threatened with a lawsuit, they quickly refunded mine and some other seller's fees back overnight (literally). I find them completely incompetent to deal with when you have a problem, and paypal is even worse with the chargeback issue. I do think both the seller and buyer should be protected, but excuse me, you DON'T allow someone to wait 60 days before filing a claim! It should be no more than 48 hours after proof of receipt of an item (based on tracking info). I have had more problems with buyers than I have with actual buying on Ebay, but I am careful when I buy after that one horrible scam. I also know that Coach is putting pressure on Ebay to remove sellers from selling Coach, and there have been some dirty tactics associated with that that I have no respect for..on Coach's part or Ebay's part.
However, all that said, I have met some of the absolutely most wonderful people on Ebay, and many have come back to buy more later on!! I would say most people are honest, but unfortunately, it's the few bad apples that we remember sometimes the most!
It also worries me with the new changes that the sabotage stuff between competitors is going to be worse. I know some sellers who have been victim of scams where a competitor has unleashed her friends to bid on auctions, just to not pay or pay and then get the item, damage it on purpose, and then leave neg. feedback. This happens a lot with antiques especially. I always worry about this when I deal with a hormonal nut job, and there are definitely some.... I always try to block the bidder any time I see a potential problem, but this new Ebay thing opens up a whole new can of worms. I hope they revise some of these policies!! Otherwise, I fear I too will join in the group that "gives up" on Ebay!!
Whew...ok, thanks for letting me vent...I think I need a nap now!!