I just set up an *bay account this weekend solely for the reason of bidding on this one certain bag. I have not used *bay in the past because I really never had the need. However, the listing did not have any restrictions for people with "0" feedback, and since you have to start somewhere I bid on the bag and was the high bidder. The seller sent me invoice and a follow-up email asking me when I was going to pay; I was not able to get my PayPal account set up yet so I sent the seller an email asking for her address so that I could mail a USPS Money Order. The seller sent me an email back saying that the bag had been damaged and not to worry about sending payment. I think they had reservations about selling to me and wanted to make sure they could still sell to the next highest bidder... Do I have any recourse?? TIA!!!