Hi everyone! I'm a guy about 5'11 with a slim/toned body. I have the Neverfull GM in DE and use that mostly for my school bag or when I'm coming back home for the weekend. I don't know how you ladies do it, it's sometimes too big for me! Haha. Anyways, before I bought my Neverfull I had a Speedy 40 in monogram and loved that bag but even that was definitely too big for every day use but perfect for an overnight trip. Now I'm just really wanting an every day bag and one that I could use over summer when I'm out and about and maybe even bring it with me to Europe since I'm studying abroad and a speedy zipper closure is more secure. I'm torn between the sizes though. I hear that the 35 is a good size just in case you want to put more stuff in but some ladies say that it's just too big too? Maybe get the 30? But I just can't decide whether to get the bandouliere in DE or Monogram either. To be honest as much as I love my DE I really wish the leather would become as soft as a vachetta over time so that's what I'm kind of stand-off-ish about but really love the red interior too. Suggestions? Or should I just be happy with my Neverfull and use it more?