Wow, that's quite the size difference between the two Julias! I also ordered the small/regular sized gunmetal Julia but am a bit disappointed that it's a bit smaller than the floral embroidered Maggie. On the other hand, the XL version of the Julia would probably end up being too big for me as I'm only 5 ft. tall. With that being said, I agree with everyone else in that the regular sized Julia looks to be better suited for you.