The other night a friend of mine was over and we were getting ready to go out for a night out with our SOs. She decided she didn't like her shoes, and we happen to be the same size, so she opened my closet and made a bee line for my new, unworn CLs (which, I must say, went perfectly with her outfit). I told her nicely that they were new and I'd like to break them in first. She told me they were just shoes (which we all know they aren't!). I happen to know that she is very rough on her shoes and tends to ruin them on occassion after a night out. I just kept thinking that if she ruined them, there was no way she would pay me back since she thinks spending that much on shoes is ridiculous (a la SATC where Carrie's shoes get stolen at a party). She ended up getting pretty mad at me and just wearing her own shoes. Anyway, that leads me to the question of whether or not you ladies would let a friend either wear or borrow a pair of your CLs. Are there certain pairs you would lend and others that you wouldn't, or are they all off limits? Would you let a friend borrow a pair who you know is really careful with things? Just curious as to everyone's thoughts on this.