Hi All,
My Dad, who is 85 years young, went along with me to the Coach boutique this past Sunday. Basically, he's recovering from shingles, needed to get out of his house and he loves to run errands with me.
I, of course was going to Coach because it was the last day of PCE and I was trying to decide if I should get a new purse for my birthday, which is next month. I have a choice to make according to DH, I can have a beautiful Coach purse or a Tag watch, but not both. (Darn it!)
Anyway, my dear sweet Dad bought me the Gallery Signature North-South Tote in khaki/red. Anybody know why it's called a North-South Tote?
It is beautiful and something I wouldn't have even looked at, had he not brought it to my attention. I am so excited and can't wait to get it in a month.
On the other hand, now I feel terribly guilty, here I am a fourty year old woman, a mother and wife and my Dad is buying me an expensive purse for my birthday! What kind of daughter am I?
I think my Dad feels guilty because I have taken care of him since June and he feels like he owes me. How can I tell him that I love him and that he doesn't owe me anything. He's done so much for me in my lifetime and this is the first time I've felt like I have truly done something for him. I swear he must have thanked me every single day. Everytime I was at his house, buying him groceries or running errands he was always teary eyed telling me that he didn't know what he'd do without me. :cry:
What would you do if you were in my shoes? Should I stop feeling guilty and carry this awesome purse with pride next month?
Any advice would be appreciated, even a shut up and stop PMSing!
TIA
My Dad, who is 85 years young, went along with me to the Coach boutique this past Sunday. Basically, he's recovering from shingles, needed to get out of his house and he loves to run errands with me.
I, of course was going to Coach because it was the last day of PCE and I was trying to decide if I should get a new purse for my birthday, which is next month. I have a choice to make according to DH, I can have a beautiful Coach purse or a Tag watch, but not both. (Darn it!)
Anyway, my dear sweet Dad bought me the Gallery Signature North-South Tote in khaki/red. Anybody know why it's called a North-South Tote?
It is beautiful and something I wouldn't have even looked at, had he not brought it to my attention. I am so excited and can't wait to get it in a month.
On the other hand, now I feel terribly guilty, here I am a fourty year old woman, a mother and wife and my Dad is buying me an expensive purse for my birthday! What kind of daughter am I?
I think my Dad feels guilty because I have taken care of him since June and he feels like he owes me. How can I tell him that I love him and that he doesn't owe me anything. He's done so much for me in my lifetime and this is the first time I've felt like I have truly done something for him. I swear he must have thanked me every single day. Everytime I was at his house, buying him groceries or running errands he was always teary eyed telling me that he didn't know what he'd do without me. :cry:
What would you do if you were in my shoes? Should I stop feeling guilty and carry this awesome purse with pride next month?
Any advice would be appreciated, even a shut up and stop PMSing!
TIA