Would you buy gifts for your EX?

[aritziababe]

My ex bf b'day is coming up and I'm still debating if I should get him a gift. Although we broke up but we still talk like once or twice a month. What would u do, if u were me? go for it or skip it?

 

[SunnyFreckles]

Only if I was Demi Moore and he was Bruce Willis. Only what that could work for me!

 

[mshel]

Nope. I wouldn't. Might send mixed messages. But, if you want to do that, you know, if you are wanting him to 'remember you' and keep you in mind, it's a good plan!

 

[cola262]

no. Maybe a text message or email to wish happy bday

 

[Christine]

NO.

 

[Kiss Me Deadly]

N.o.!

 

[siworae]

I guess it might depend on what kind of relationship you have with your ex... if you're still good friends, no hard feelings... maybe. I'm not close to any of my ex-bf's... I keep in touch with a couple of them on occasion, but other than wishing a happy b-day via e-mail, I wouldn't consider sending a gift.

 

[gr8heart]

Did he give you a gift for any reason, after the break-up?

 

[aritziababe]

gr8heart He didn't buy me any gifts after the break up but he took me out for lunch and dinner couple of times. But I stil feel very distance from him although we still keep intouch.

 

[MAGs]

Nope. I know DH wouldn't appreciate this very much. And so will I if he bought his ex a gift.

 

[twigski]

I would just send him a card.

 

[cutie blueberry]

hm, i think if you guys still have lunch or dinner together sometimes, maybe a card with some normal gift would be okay... it just, i couldnt figure it out which gift we could consider a normal gift,

 

[twinkie]

Definitely NO.

 

[rileygirl]

Haha, my ex wouldn't appreciate the kind of gift I'd love to send him! LOL

 

[poutine]

no way!