Pettiness comes in many forms, but is petty to be a bit more than peeved when a good friend who supposedly knows you very well, buys a bag that you've made your own? In my case, it was the MJ "Stam" bag. I know he makes a bunch of different versions of it, but in essence, it is still a Stam bag no matter what. I was the first in my group to covet it and call it my own this past February. I intended to add to my collection with his other variations, but my individuality has somehow felt compromised and undermined by my friend's ignorance, who doesn't even appreciate MJ half as much as I do (not even close) nor does she even care to know who he is. All she knows is Lindsay Lohan has the same bag and that she LOVES it. Would you want to own the same bag as your friend?? The reason I'm asking this is because she has made me feel like my annoyance at the fact that she totally stole my bag is an anomaly solely credited to myself and no one else. Please tell me this isn't so, even if it is a little petty.