This is the second time she did it. I already told her I didn't like that she did that without asking first. Last time his bangs weren't even long. He cut them because they bothered her since she hates bangs herself. This time they were long but I told her would cut them when I find time. It's usually a 3-day ordeal as DS never cooperates lol. And since we take naps together, while he's asleep is not possible. So she cut them anyway. Not only does it look bad (think Dumb and Dumber), she did it again without asking me. It makes me angry when she does that. I feel like she's undermining me. She says she wants to help me out once a week when she takes him, but making me furious is not helping me at all. I angrily told her on Mother's Day (again) that its not up to her to decide when he gets a hair cut and definitely not up to her to do it. She already had her turn with her kids, this time is mine. But she didn't get it at all. In fact her attitude is always "I don't care." She said "I cut your son's hair and you can cut my daughter's hair." Hahaha funny. Seriously, what's next? Is she gonna decide which school he goes to? What he majors in? What sports he should play? ....... I already told her that if her plants and flowers get a makeover, it will be from me. I'm seriously thinking of going over to cut them all off.