I am having the worst luck with buyers lately and it's really affecting my status on ebay as a seller because they're all messaging me after the sale with changed minds so I'm getting all these undeserved defects. I'm jumping though hoops and getting defects. The latest buyer just five minutes ago made me an offer on an Anthropologie shower curtain. I refused her first low ball offer. Then she made me another offer which I accepted. Secondss later I get a message from her that she changed her mind and wants to cancel the sale. "Sorry for the inconvenience". It was literally two minutes from when she made the first offer to the point of her messaging me after I accepted her second offer that she'd changed her mind. I have whiplash. All my other recent buyers are pretty much the same. Changed mind after purchase. One I chased down thru the mail system for her to recall it! And I'm getting defects for each one! Could I please ask advice on how to handle this latest fickle buyer? How should I respond to her request to cancel? Why on earth would she have made me two offers if she didn't want me to sell to her? This is a an inconvenience! I had a ton of other watchers! And do I have any recourse on these undeserved defects? Thank you all so much for your help!