So I got my scarf last night- it's absolutely beautiful and I love it, but the silk seems so thick/stiff. It's a lot less "floppy" (for a lack of a better word) than the other scarves I have. Will it soften over time or something? I'm having trouble gettign it to lay nicely- when I tie it, the tied ends kind of stick out at weird angles instead of falling down nicely. :s