It seems like my pocketbook takes on a life of its own and grows. When I carry a bigger bag I seem to acquire all this stuff in it . I don't know how I do it. When I clean my bag to change bags I wonder why I have this or that in my bag. Then if I use a smaller bag I am quite happy with a wallet, cell phone, keys, small medicine bag and pen and small pad and happy as can be. I am now drawn to smaller bags just for the comfort of not having a heavy bag. This week I am carrying my Fendi Chef bag around and it is a very comfortable bag to have, I love the shoulder strap and the size is bigger than one would think-you can put a ton of stuff in there but I am keeping mine organized with just what I need. My friends and I have talked about this, I find with kids I do all some strange things to my bags but I wonder if others do this.