I've been a member of tpf now for nearly 5 years. I bought my first Hermes (a scarf and one for my daughter, as well) nearly 9 years ago - first bag 4 1/2 yrs ago. My collection is VERY small and that's just fine with me. The only bag I would still love to own is a black Piano, preferbly croc, but BB would also do. I most likely never will as I just can't bring myself to pay that much for something that would get so little use (church) when I have lovely non-Hermes that serve me quite well. I haven't bought a scarf in 2-3 years, or a shawl in about 2 years - I have plenty for my lifestyle.
Why did I want Hermes? The scarves are SO lovely - wonderful quality of silk and the prints and colors are gorgeous. They last forever and can smarten up the plainest clothes. I find I no longer wear mine as much as I should, but I do love them. My daughter will enjoy them when I'm gone.
I bought an Hermes bag as I was disgusted with Vuitton's new policy of only repairing bags with a manufacturer defect. One used to be able to take them in for a new zipper/strap. The last one I bought looked tired after 3 years - some serious wear - and it was the identical style I had previously bought that lasted 16 years!!! I've always loved the Kelly style - first saw it when I was in retailing school in NYC in the mid-60's - had no idea about the brand, just loved the style. So, I lost 20 pounds and treated myself to one, then a 2nd vintage one. My 3rd - a Picotin PM - was a treat to bring back from Paris. At NO TIME was it about needing to buy a "name" luxury brand - I could care less and am delighted that I live somewhere where having Coach is a big deal and it is rare for anyone to recognize that my bags are Hermes. I've never gotten into the SLG's - WAY too pricey and Hermes wallets wouldn't work for me anyway.
Over my nearly 5 years on tpf, I've seen the members go from those who just love the style and quality to those who simply must have a luxury brand label for everything that goes on their body (Hermes tampons?) I hear them saying that they must have NOTHING but the finest of everything, "finest" being defined as a major status symbol brand that costs a fortune for even the simplest thing. I don't know if they think they're so "special" that only the finest will possibly do, or if they think having all these ridiculously in order to feel "special" and "rich". Some clearly buy it to impress others - some husbands are even into their wives having lots of Hermes as it enhances their status.
So...my question is, do you love this brand and buy it Hermes because you love the styles and the quality? Do you buy it because you believe you deserve only the finest and most expensive there is, even where the most basic items are involved? Do you buy it to impress your friends, get better tables in restaurants, better service in stores? Do you buy it to fill a hole in your life? Over the years, we've had a few MAJOR buyers on tpf, and when they finally had children, they disappeared completely. Do you buy Hermes because it's the "hot" brand today and you like to always have the hottest, latest things? Do you buy tons of Hermes because you like LOTS of change and variety in your life?
There are no "right" or "wrong" answers, but there are perhaps different value systems in play here. I'm genuinely curious why tpf members buy Hermes and buy it the way they do. Let's hear from you all!
Why did I want Hermes? The scarves are SO lovely - wonderful quality of silk and the prints and colors are gorgeous. They last forever and can smarten up the plainest clothes. I find I no longer wear mine as much as I should, but I do love them. My daughter will enjoy them when I'm gone.
I bought an Hermes bag as I was disgusted with Vuitton's new policy of only repairing bags with a manufacturer defect. One used to be able to take them in for a new zipper/strap. The last one I bought looked tired after 3 years - some serious wear - and it was the identical style I had previously bought that lasted 16 years!!! I've always loved the Kelly style - first saw it when I was in retailing school in NYC in the mid-60's - had no idea about the brand, just loved the style. So, I lost 20 pounds and treated myself to one, then a 2nd vintage one. My 3rd - a Picotin PM - was a treat to bring back from Paris. At NO TIME was it about needing to buy a "name" luxury brand - I could care less and am delighted that I live somewhere where having Coach is a big deal and it is rare for anyone to recognize that my bags are Hermes. I've never gotten into the SLG's - WAY too pricey and Hermes wallets wouldn't work for me anyway.
Over my nearly 5 years on tpf, I've seen the members go from those who just love the style and quality to those who simply must have a luxury brand label for everything that goes on their body (Hermes tampons?) I hear them saying that they must have NOTHING but the finest of everything, "finest" being defined as a major status symbol brand that costs a fortune for even the simplest thing. I don't know if they think they're so "special" that only the finest will possibly do, or if they think having all these ridiculously in order to feel "special" and "rich". Some clearly buy it to impress others - some husbands are even into their wives having lots of Hermes as it enhances their status.
So...my question is, do you love this brand and buy it Hermes because you love the styles and the quality? Do you buy it because you believe you deserve only the finest and most expensive there is, even where the most basic items are involved? Do you buy it to impress your friends, get better tables in restaurants, better service in stores? Do you buy it to fill a hole in your life? Over the years, we've had a few MAJOR buyers on tpf, and when they finally had children, they disappeared completely. Do you buy Hermes because it's the "hot" brand today and you like to always have the hottest, latest things? Do you buy tons of Hermes because you like LOTS of change and variety in your life?
There are no "right" or "wrong" answers, but there are perhaps different value systems in play here. I'm genuinely curious why tpf members buy Hermes and buy it the way they do. Let's hear from you all!