when going to family and friends homes for holiday get togethers (not fancy parties) which do you think would be a better choice of bags (outfits are dress casual - nice jeans and fancy white blouse or black pants and cashmere seater) an ivory speedy with a palladium disco ball ( to dress it up for a holiday feeling) - or is ivory not a good winter choice? houston in noisette? none of these? Are the coices too spring/summer? Most of my other bags are more casual/everyday/large and I'm not feeling anything at the store that is dressier that I want to purchase - (waiting for the trevi). Is the disco ball strictly for the younger set? Thanks for your help.