whats in chicago? seriously haha!
SF all the way. Its the number #1 tourist spot, has world famous golden gate bridge, treasue island, half moon bay, REAL beaches, 101 pacific coast highway is not very far, you have the wine country which is a bit north..all the fun piers, lets not even mention the shopping. stores AFTER stores. the weather here is amazing...I mean the most thats going to happen is fog in the AM. & about your concern over the gay folks...trust me, they are the BEST haha!!! they dont make out in front of you at all..I mean sf is SF..no other city can compare. I actually prefer it over to NYC. we have the same stuff basically..and our weather is 100x better. you wont regret SF.