I just got the neiman marcus one in the mail this week too. it was a birthday present to myself. I got the small, but it is a little big for me esp in the shoulders, so I was debating returning it. But do I really want a leather jacket that's too form fitting...probably not. I've been looking for the perfect leather jacket for like 2.5 years (I am not willing to spend what I do on handbags on a jacket though), and this is the best bang/look for the buck. I really love how incredibly buttery soft the leather is and the faux belt. I like the look of a belt in theory, but they're kind of annoying to buckle and un-buckle...
Both jackets look great on you, but I like the gunmetal of the NM more than the gold platting of the other one, if that had gunmetal it would be a hard sell.