So I ended up going with the twice!!
I only saw the Favorite in store but it didn't grab my attention like I thought it would. I tried on the alma bb and it just wasn't "it" for crossbody the strap was a tad too short (I'm a bit wider and had a sweater and vest on) and it just didn't sit comfortably and if I'm going to do a strap I want to have options
I was about to leave the store because the SA told me they didn't have the Twice in stock (she was even confused as to what I wanted) but decided to do a final lap and found it. As soon as I tried it on it just fit perfect and looked perfect on me so I got it!
I'll post pictures when I get on my laptop tomorrow. I still definitely have my eyes on everything else.
Part of me still has sticker shock but I also know i deserve to spoil myself once in a while for working hard and know that I can always make more money for other things