I was just wondering when you had children? I am 24 in August and my fiance is 26 in September, we have been together for 5 years. MY mum was 28 when she had me and I am the oldest, none of my friends have babys but I would like to be a young mum, my mum says to wait until I'm about 28 and says that most people have children older these days so I would be younger than all the other mums at the baby clinics etc. My fiance (god I hate that word!) wants to be about 30 so I guess we wont have one for a while but I was just wondering, what are your own experiences? My fiance has a good job so money is not a problem, he says that he wants to enjoy himself while he is young and kids prevent you doing this, what do you think? What are your experiences?