I am in shock....... it hasn't sunk in yet ~ not sure when it will? The kind of shock that you know you need to have that strong cry but it's buried somewhere still deep inside you. A very very close friend of mine has found out that he has a tumor that is cancerous. My question is do any of you know anyone that has had cancer that has opted out of chemo and tried something else that was sucessful? At this point I'm just gathering information. He is against chemo right now. I appreciate any links or articles or anything that you could share.