I began collecting Hermes scarves in the mid seventies. My mother handed a scarf to me in '85 to wear ( she had already had it for 20 years) and I still wear it. She always said (just like India) to fold them along the original pleats and they will last forever.Her scarves were always folded and put away on top shelf in hall coat closet as soon as she got home. I keep mine folded and in their original tissue and boxes.
How does the group here fold and store their shawls ?
What a great story! Your mother was clearly a very stylish woman who knew how to care for her expensive things. H scarves are meant to last for generations when cared for properly. I, too, fold all my scarves and put them away after use [H ones always go in their original boxes!]. I love the creases as well I have not washed an H scarf yet but I have hand-washed some Versace and Dior silks and they came out just fine; they even re-creased themselves overnight when they were folded and put away in boxes.