I too am not really asking for anything, or even wishing for anything.
Same w/ my birthday last week.
I'm indifferent or just satisified for now.
He keeps asking me about what size diamond studs to upgrade to and keep saying, "oh, let's just wait until next year, anniversary or something."
He's a sucky shopper though, he NEEDS a hard list or he'll get me random stuff from whichever store is closest to the Starbucks he happens to be at when he remember he needs to buy me something!
Last year it was Bath & Body Works - WHICH IS FINE, but I don't happen to dig that stuff.
My sister laughed her butt off when I called her and told her what he bought me from there, she asked, "does he even know you!?"
poor guy
But, the martyr in me will resent him when Christmas morn rolls around and I don't really have anything to open, so I'll probably make a little list, gift cards or something
I'd really like to give him directions to NM and have him ask for Shannon, she could really help him, but then he'd know what I pay for my stealthed in goods