Just wanting some un-biased opinions -- I've been invited to my ex-best friend's wedding. I was supposed to be maid of honor but was kicked out of that role 5 months ago for no reason (she literally could not give me a good reason for doing this...) and the bride and I have not really spoken since. I would have to say we're not friends anymore. Odd thing is, I've been invited to the wedding. I was invited to the shower as well, but didn't attend. Why she's inviting me, I'm not sure. We haven't exactly "patched things up" and she has not apologized or tried to make amends for what she has done. Would you attend if you were in my situation? I'm planning on sending her a card and gift to "be the bigger person" but would feel incredibly uncomfortable attending the wedding after everything that has happened, not to mention, the fact that we are not really on speaking terms right now. Would I be awful for not going? I'm getting ready to mail my response card in but I think I'm afraid I'll get some really nasty phone call or e-mail from her. Truth is, though, that since we're not speaking, I can't imagine that she would WANT me there or expect me to show. Any thoughts? I'd feel like an idiot going and I'd feel extremely unwelcome and uncomfortable. Can anyone blame me or has anyone else been in a similar situation before? Thanks.