Had a conversation with DH about the possibility of me quitting my job and being a SAHM . Since we have enjoyed dual income for such a long time and are quite comfortable with it, we came to the conclusion that I may have to give up certain things ie. things that I generally buy myself in excessive, shameless amounts -- blings, pearls, shoes, facials, massages and of course H. I decided that I really should continue working . And now, I am 'aiming' for another Birkin and another Kelly and many, many, many small leather items I have decided I am going to get. To build my H fund as quickly as possible, I am going on a shoe ban , and pearl ban . Yup! Giving up these for the moment, just for H.