First, I'm sorry to post this similiar thread but within 2 days, I encountered sooo bad buyers who BIN my Cherry Blossom. The first winner of Cherry Blossom Papillon has agreed to send me payment by check-I appreciate much her good faith to complete this transaction BUT another winner of my Cherry BLossom Retro ( imagine, I sold her $705 only + $45 shipping while my CB not that bad to sell in that low price-I sold it in that low price coz I just found another new Cherry BLossom ) Nah, this buyer click BIN then emailed me: Hi xxx, I am so sorry that I did not realize that you did not take paypal. And I don't feel comfortable sending you cash...I feel that if I pay with paypal, I have my credit card co. back me up if something go wrong...and paypal also have a cover for me up to $1000 so pls. be advice. I really mean it that I don't feel comfortable send you cash...really...I had been bured by international sellers before and promiss not do that again...so let me know what can we do...I really like to buy this bag...I apologized for not reading the describtion clearly...I was worry that someone might bid before I did...So I forgot to check the payment method that you have on your listing...Sorry REgards xxx Then she emailed me again: Hi again...I know this bag is a good deal...but I don't think I can send you cash or money transfer....IF you want to relist you item, I am willing to help you pay for all the listing cost...or if you have any other solution, pls. let me know. Thank you Kind Regards. KIM As her request to find another alternatvice, I asked her that she'd send MO to my fam in USA, but she refuse it and told want to make PayPal payment only while in the first message, she told that uncomfy to send cash to international so I asked her MO to my fam in USA- I think it's fair enough for her!! After that, I asked how if she sent to my fam's PayPal account as she said she want to make PayPal only ( her second email ) Read her email: Hi xxx, No I am not...I will only like to pay with paypal because I am protected by both paypal and my credit card company....I am really really sorry I am so sorry to be pain in the butt but I only and really have to pay with paypal....I know we can work this out...You can relist it and you won't loose anything. I will loose at least $25 I promiss I will help you pay for all you listing and final value fees....I can send money order to you aunt if you like and I think that how I prefer anyway....This show to you that I am really sorry and am take responsibility of my action...that cost you time and money.... Kind REgards. xxxxxx You know what she replied?? She said that she didn't want to send money to other party!! OMG!! I know it's unsual idea but based of her any requests: 1. Don't want to send cash internationall ( I asked her to send MO to my aunt )- then 2. Don't want to send payment except by PayPal ( so I gave her my fam's PayPal )-then REFUSE all the methods!! I mean she didn't show her good faith to complete payment!! Why she requested any alternatives and once I found alternatives for her, she refuses all one by one!! ( actually, I even don't think I've to found her alternatives by I've mentioned clearly I only accept Bank Wire and Bank Draft ) The last email, she asked to pay my fees ( she said since not more than $50 ) but it's unfair for me as I can't re-list my LV till next week ( SAturday/Monday ) and what $50 can do for me as she make me lost my 1 week?? She kept asking me to understand her "honest mistake" ( like she said ) but she totally not do the same-she not appreciate my effort to find her the other alternatives like her requested in her first email even refuse all!! I think she's so selfish-she thinking herself only-not thinking about me-I can't resell my LV till 7 days later-and-how I feel she BIN my item but not trust me to accept payment even think I will humiliate myself with $750 only?? No, thanks! She asked me to check her feedback to show she's serious buyer but made "honest mistake" but what's the function I do it?? Even if I check her feedback,I won't get back my 7 days!! Read her email: Hi xxx, That will be even more concerned to me to send money to someone who has nothing to do with this transaction at all...So I don't think it's a good idea...I am not the kind of person who bid and won and don't pay for...Pls.read my feedback I am 100% feedback of over 2000 and never once I have negative or even nautral...So that said something about me that I am a honest person...And this transaction is an honest misstake that I made...So I am willing to take responsible for it...Let me know how much you listing cost....I will send money order directly to you. KInd regards. I mean if she has over 1000 or 2000, she should understand that before bidding, she should read terms about shipping, payment etc and know, bidding is binding by contract! Please advice as I really dislike to relist and she "put-price" on my effort & time by $50 only?? She said she'll recieve my negf.feedback but more than it-how if I give strike?