ok, I need all your knowledge in bags here. I really love the size and the structured shape of the Popincourt Haut, but I can't seem to bring myself to buy the monogram as I know I will be self-conscious carrying it. And the SA told me that they will not do a special order in damier/epi as it is a new bag. I'm looking for another bag similar in size and shape to the PH. The only other one that I can think of is the Mulberry Elgin, but it is much larger. Any suggestions? Thanks.