if anyone remembers my drama with being in a wedding, and being asked to pay for things i can't afford, it was all settled, both with the bride and her sister. i just got the bridal shower invitation, and taped to the left side, was the bride and groom's wedding registry. i'm 99% sure this was sent by her sister. it most certainly wasn't sent by the bride, she lives in a different state than the return address. i would have sent gifts no matter what, especially considering i'm not attending, but is this tacky? am i wrong to think something is just seriously off with the bride's sister?