What is the very last day you can leave a negative for someone in hopes that they don't retaliate against you? I NEVER leave neg feedback because I believe it can be handled otherwise. However, I feel that this one seller just took my money and ran. She won't respond to mail and is ignoring me. EXCEPT she did send me a notice stating that my item has just been shipped today. The downfall is I paid for it two weeks ago. Had she emailed to tell me that she would be shipping two weeks later, I would have asked for a refund. I hate the fact that some sellers really use feedback as a hostage program.