(Mods, I hope I'm posting this thread in the right place- it's not really a question about relationships per se, mostly just social appropriateness and general idea-seeking...
So, my wonderful BF and I are nearing engagement, and we've both been divorced. We're both still relatively young (early 30's), and our first marriages lasted less than 2 years. Even our first weddings were very similar- both smallish destination weddings. I wish he was the one standing at the altar the first time!
My question: what kind of event is appropriate for a second wedding?? If you've been married more than once, what did you do the second time? We want our wedding to be small, but special for the close friends and family who really matter. And we don't want to spend a whole lot, having done it the first time and gotten it out of our systems. We're not going to hold a spectacle or register for china or do anything that will make us feel greedy. It's hard for me to explain how I feel without knocking big weddings, which I'm not trying to do at all. Basically, we just want to do something that will celebrate our love, but without drawing attention to the fact that these same friends and relatives spent all this time and money on our first weddings, for naught. Does that make sense??
Anyone have any ideas or experiences of their own to share? Thank you!!
So, my wonderful BF and I are nearing engagement, and we've both been divorced. We're both still relatively young (early 30's), and our first marriages lasted less than 2 years. Even our first weddings were very similar- both smallish destination weddings. I wish he was the one standing at the altar the first time!
My question: what kind of event is appropriate for a second wedding?? If you've been married more than once, what did you do the second time? We want our wedding to be small, but special for the close friends and family who really matter. And we don't want to spend a whole lot, having done it the first time and gotten it out of our systems. We're not going to hold a spectacle or register for china or do anything that will make us feel greedy. It's hard for me to explain how I feel without knocking big weddings, which I'm not trying to do at all. Basically, we just want to do something that will celebrate our love, but without drawing attention to the fact that these same friends and relatives spent all this time and money on our first weddings, for naught. Does that make sense??
Anyone have any ideas or experiences of their own to share? Thank you!!