ok so i ran down to get cash and spied a little handheld steamer at my store. so i buy it. came home and decided to steam my scarves since just laying them as flat as i can is not getting the wrinkles out. i start. basically nothing happens. i try the front. try the back. discover a stain like makeup on my instructions scarf. freak out. keep from crying. hold it together h. hold it together. i manage to get most of the wrinkles out, avoid the hems as i think i'm supposed to (wait, did i hit a hem somewhere? i might have), and generally make it look better. except i have lost some of the natural folds that the scarf came with. i'll try the pointu. which is black. hanging in my bathroom i can see through it where the creases are. but not anywhere else. is this NORMAL? omg. freaking out again. keep it together h. you must keep it together. ok, so this come out better but again, i lost all the natural folds my pointu have. so what am i doing wrong? now i'm afraid to try it on any of my scarves and they need it. i feel like never wearing my scarves again because i am so afraid of ruining them. and what can i do to get out the stain on my white one? help! please!