i am so upset. i have a huge family and buying for them for the holidays is very expensive. there are 7 kids. a long time ago i made a budget on how much to spend on each- i buy the girls all one thing and the boys another. i usually go over but i try and keep to it because there are so many of them (plus parents, siblings, friends, etc). anyway i thought of what i wanted for the girls yesterday and found it on eBay. way out of my range. so i made a very low offer. you never know unless you try and i said in my message exactly why i was asking and if it was not acceptable to tell me what is. they had best offer on their item. anyway i knew it was low and i never offer that low but i really am trying to stick to my budget for christmas. anyway i got a decline notice today (no surprise) and the note said "Don't try again" what? i'm sorry but that's rude. if it's too low just say "that's too low. we're hoping for much closer to our asking price" or something like that. i just emailed them a very upset letter. they have tons of items up. it's not like i made the same offer on every one or was even going to (which i suspect is what they were thinking i would do) i'm sorry i just needed to vent. i think just telling someone not to even try again is horrible. why would you even have best offer then? why be so rude? ugh.