I am "friends" on FB with my stepson B. Last evening he sent me a "friend suggestion" and guess who it was---his MOTHER!!
I have never really talked to her but the few interactions we've had have been pleasant enough. From things B tells me, she actually sounds kind of like someone I might sort of like if, you know, I wasn't married to her ex, who loathes her. Except for her cavalier attitude towards animals though the pig thing is actually working out but that's a whole 'nother story...
I rather feel like his mother and I should leave our relationship as-is, that is to say, non-existent. But how to explain to B? I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't really want to befriend his Mom on FB and thus give her access to all my "stuff" if you KWIM. Though I do keep it pretty superficial on FB, but still...
So, what would you do?
I have never really talked to her but the few interactions we've had have been pleasant enough. From things B tells me, she actually sounds kind of like someone I might sort of like if, you know, I wasn't married to her ex, who loathes her. Except for her cavalier attitude towards animals though the pig thing is actually working out but that's a whole 'nother story...
I rather feel like his mother and I should leave our relationship as-is, that is to say, non-existent. But how to explain to B? I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't really want to befriend his Mom on FB and thus give her access to all my "stuff" if you KWIM. Though I do keep it pretty superficial on FB, but still...
So, what would you do?