Sorry if this has already been posted - I did a search and didn't see anything. I'm getting married in November, and FI and I have chosen to have a very small wedding - about 40 guests, just family and a few close friends. I've already reserved the church and reception site, so now we have to work out all the details - reception food, wedding cake, entertainment, photographer, flowers, etc etc etc. I knew going into everything that I did NOT want a wedding planner/coordinator. Anyone else plan out a wedding and reception on your own? Any tips for me? I am just nervous that I will overlook something important or that the day will be a mess without someone directing everything.