Some people work for these gifts. It is rediculous. I had a good friend totally disapear out of my life. No call, no explanation, nothing. a year and a half later I receive a broken bottle of lotion and used cuticle cream from her for my bd. Then about 3 weeks after that I receive the wedding inivitation and bridal shower invitation on the same day. Both had the registries printed on the invitations and on a card that fell out. I guess incase I needed a copy for my wallet. I never replied I was soooooo pissed. I just received a invite to the baby shower with registry again. Ugg!